{"id":25394,"date":"2017-01-19T02:33:32","date_gmt":"2017-01-19T07:33:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/?p=25394"},"modified":"2017-11-19T10:01:14","modified_gmt":"2017-11-19T15:01:14","slug":"raising-happy-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/raising-happy-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Raising Happy Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1-900x600.jpg?resize=900%2C600\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-25406\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1.jpg?resize=900%2C600&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1.jpg?resize=140%2C94&amp;ssl=1 140w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/161224-6003e-1.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As a father of seven and a grandfather of 17, you might think I&#8217;d have a lot of parenting advice&#8230;but, I keep it to myself. Instead, I reserve my advice for tech and travel reviews. However, I&#8217;ve got to say that I could easily point to a bunch of parents who I think are way off-track and out-of-touch in this country and in others.<\/p>\n<p>On another note, I recently had the opportunity to see a video about Millennials in the Workplace that was most revealing about &#8216;modern parents&#8217;. The very following day I read a blog post that completely took the opposite stance. Yes, now I understand why the younger generation has a challenge facing them.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, when I saw this post from guest author, <strong>Kat Kronenberg<\/strong>, it resonated with me, and I pass it along to all parents with best wishes. \u00a0But, I&#8217;d add a third rule: Travel with your kids. \u00a0The world is full of surprises just waiting to be discovered and kids always crave new experiences.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you are a helicopter parent or a tough-love specialist, I think this article&#8217;s premise holds true. Hope you enjoy it.<\/p>\n<h1 align=\"center\"><strong>Two Powerful Bullseyes for Raising Happy Children<\/strong><strong><br \/>\nBy Kat Kronenberg<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p>Keep It Simple Stup\u2014Ha! We\u2019ve all heard the saying. But as a new parent who had never really changed a diaper before, I needed help when I brought my first born home. I was a seeker, a willing student, but I also had huge time constraints\u2014work, marriage, running a household, and most importantly my precious baby who could do nothing for himself, yet he was now in my complete care.<\/p>\n<p>K.I.S.S. became my motto: \u201cKeep It Simple Seeker.\u201d It helped keep the overwhelming feelings away as I sought out mentors, teachers who were amazing examples, books, blogs, and articles.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280-900x600.jpg?resize=900%2C600\" alt=\"parent and child playing\" width=\"900\" height=\"600\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-25404\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280.jpg?resize=900%2C600&amp;ssl=1 900w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280.jpg?resize=140%2C94&amp;ssl=1 140w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/parent-child-1280.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/>Here are two powerful bullseyes for parents like me who need clear and concise ways to raise successful, happy, and confident children.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1.SET AN EXAMPLE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The first bullseye is to set an example. Our kids watch every move we make. They learn how to relate to the world through us. The most rewarding, all encompassing, and effective way to teach our kids is through our example, and the most fulfilling example we found was what we like to call \u201ccatching CATCH-M.\u201d \u201cCatching CATCH-M\u201d is to radiate a BIG BELLY SMILE that comes all the way up from your belly through your chest, and shines from your face a connection to and belief in yourself, in your dreams, and in something bigger\u2014God, faith, hope, or your wished-upon star that is out there watching over you and guiding you.<\/p>\n<p>I realized after watching different parents, my mentors, and some great teachers that the way they were able to achieve these beautiful, radiant, and contagious smiles was by knowing who they are, their fears, their pain, their joys, their gifts, why they are here, what their dreams might be, and how they plan to achieve them. They weren\u2019t even that concerned with the outcome because they were challenging themselves, learning new things, meeting new people, growing, evolving. They were celebrating their life. No wonder I kept looking to them to figure out how best to parent. What a great way to live. No need to compare. No concern for naysayers. No real stress. What an example to set, and life skill for my children to learn.<\/p>\n<p>Chasing a dream is a great adventure. The thrill, challenge, and utter vulnerability of daring to get in the arena of life and to have my face married with dust and sweat, while keeping a BIG BELLY SMILE and trust, has become a valuable gift. To watch my kids\u2019 faces as they see me chase after my dreams, while consciously choosing to \u201ccatch CATCH-M\u201d, makes whatever the outcome a huge success. They see me succeed, fail, and they even help me get back in the arena to keep trying. \u201cWE\u201d become our own little team, helping each other. And as we do, we learn that our BIG BELLY SMILES have a way of being contagious. They allow for the freedom and fun of hard work with lasting memories as we chase our dreams together. They create meaningful connection, and they help each one of us to remember to celebrate as we share in living our best lives.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Scroll-down-to-Share-your-thoughts-on.jpg?resize=799%2C181\" alt=\"\" width=\"799\" height=\"181\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-25433\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Scroll-down-to-Share-your-thoughts-on.jpg?w=799&amp;ssl=1 799w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Scroll-down-to-Share-your-thoughts-on.jpg?resize=150%2C34&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Scroll-down-to-Share-your-thoughts-on.jpg?resize=300%2C68&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Scroll-down-to-Share-your-thoughts-on.jpg?resize=768%2C174&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 799px) 100vw, 799px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. SET A GOAL<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The<a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2jcD5iE\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/DreamBig_Kronenberg-284x300.jpg?resize=284%2C300\" alt=\"Dream Big by Kat Kronenberg\" width=\"284\" height=\"300\" class=\"wp-image-25402 size-medium alignright\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/DreamBig_Kronenberg.jpg?resize=284%2C300&amp;ssl=1 284w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/DreamBig_Kronenberg.jpg?resize=142%2C150&amp;ssl=1 142w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/DreamBig_Kronenberg.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 284px) 100vw, 284px\" \/><\/a> second bullseye is to set goals. The single most important goal we found is to take the time to share a BIG BELLY SMILE with our kids everyday. My motto is \u201cNo matter what kind of day you have had, hardship or heartache, you can always find the best part.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At the dinner table, in the car, at bedtime, share your best parts while consciously \u201ccatching CATCH-M\u201d together. Focus in on, laugh, and celebrate each of your stories. A shared smile has more power than almost anything I know. It can change your mood, the energy in a room. It makes a powerful connection and makes memories. It brings freedom, fun, hope, and peace. The list is endless.<\/p>\n<p>Learning how to wake up each day and set goals has taught me as a mother and a dreamer that I have something to look forward to, to strive for. I don\u2019t need to stand in my own shadows, feeling alone, confused, or purposeless. I know I have at least one goal each day I have to achieve: a BIG BELLY SMILE. This makes setting other goals easier and actually exciting to achieve. I have to believe these same truths hold true for my own children.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, you can see that a smile has become my most important \u201cgo to\u201d as a parent. It has been the best tool to use especially if I don&#8217;t know what else to do. I\u2019ve even learned that a small smirk works. To smirk at myself when I make a mistake, fail, or am just plain moody in front of my kids. It allows each of us to be human with a light, honest, yet vulnerable way to connect that keeps us out of shame and perfectionism.<\/p>\n<p>I cannot think of a better way to try to spend time with my children. Think about the example you want to set and the goals you hope to achieve, and as you do let\u2019s all keep striving to \u201ccatch CATCH-M\u201d together!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"su-divider su-divider-style-default\" style=\"margin:15px 0;border-width:3px;border-color:#999999\"><\/div>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Kronenberg-263x300.jpg?resize=263%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"263\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-25428\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Kronenberg.jpg?resize=263%2C300&amp;ssl=1 263w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Kronenberg.jpg?resize=132%2C150&amp;ssl=1 132w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Kronenberg.jpg?resize=768%2C875&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Kronenberg.jpg?resize=790%2C900&amp;ssl=1 790w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dougbardwell.com\/db\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Kronenberg.jpg?w=1985&amp;ssl=1 1985w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 263px) 100vw, 263px\" \/>Kat Kronenberg is a debut children\u2019s book author living in Austin, Texas. As a member of the\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/tcismith.pr-optout.com\/Tracking.aspx?Data=HHL%3d8247%3a3-%3eLCE58451%40%26SDG%3c90%3a.&amp;RE=MC&amp;RI=5086269&amp;Preview=False&amp;DistributionActionID=59243&amp;Action=Follow+Link\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=http:\/\/tcismith.pr-optout.com\/Tracking.aspx?Data%3DHHL%253d8247%253a3-%253eLCE58451%2540%2526SDG%253c90%253a.%26RE%3DMC%26RI%3D5086269%26Preview%3DFalse%26DistributionActionID%3D59243%26Action%3DFollow%2BLink&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1484942495776000&amp;usg=AFQjCNEc3CWoPxfJYeGTCggq-IqZsxFOmA\">Society of Children&#8217;s Book Writers and Illustrators<\/a><\/strong>, her hope and dream\u00a0<strong>is that through reading we can encourage one another other to \u201cfollow our bliss,\u201d stay in the arena fighting for our dreams, and allow joy and fulfillment to be our internal GPS.<\/strong>\u00a0In addition to spreading her message through her children\u2019s book\u00a0<em>Dream Big<\/em>, she also provides interactive games that promote abundance thinking, Common Core aligned discussion and project guides, and free downloadable activity sheets at\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/tcismith.pr-optout.com\/Tracking.aspx?Data=HHL%3d8247%3a3-%3eLCE58451%40%26SDG%3c90%3a.&amp;RE=MC&amp;RI=5086269&amp;Preview=False&amp;DistributionActionID=59241&amp;Action=Follow+Link\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=http:\/\/tcismith.pr-optout.com\/Tracking.aspx?Data%3DHHL%253d8247%253a3-%253eLCE58451%2540%2526SDG%253c90%253a.%26RE%3DMC%26RI%3D5086269%26Preview%3DFalse%26DistributionActionID%3D59241%26Action%3DFollow%2BLink&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1484942495776000&amp;usg=AFQjCNHsjzeWfHHzNhcRGq6P8yICkpjwvg\">www.katkronenberg.com<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><em>Dream Big<\/em>\u00a0(Greenleaf Book Group, January 2017) is available on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/tcismith.pr-optout.com\/Tracking.aspx?Data=HHL%3d8247%3a3-%3eLCE58451%40%26SDG%3c90%3a.&amp;RE=MC&amp;RI=5086269&amp;Preview=False&amp;DistributionActionID=59242&amp;Action=Follow+Link\" target=\"_blank\" data-saferedirecturl=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/url?hl=en&amp;q=http:\/\/tcismith.pr-optout.com\/Tracking.aspx?Data%3DHHL%253d8247%253a3-%253eLCE58451%2540%2526SDG%253c90%253a.%26RE%3DMC%26RI%3D5086269%26Preview%3DFalse%26DistributionActionID%3D59242%26Action%3DFollow%2BLink&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1484942495776000&amp;usg=AFQjCNERI7Ldx_DQpUS7uOuFQMhuSLta7g\">Amazon<\/a>\u00a0and other booksellers nationwide. 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