{"id":1283,"date":"2021-02-16T08:56:08","date_gmt":"2021-02-16T13:56:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/?p=1283"},"modified":"2023-01-04T12:32:48","modified_gmt":"2023-01-04T17:32:48","slug":"parents-when-was-the-last-time-you-really-checked-your-childs-social-media","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2021\/02\/16\/parents-when-was-the-last-time-you-really-checked-your-childs-social-media\/","title":{"rendered":"Parents &#8211; when was the last time you really checked your child&#8217;s social media"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"575\" src=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-1024x575.jpg\" alt=\"Social media\" class=\"wp-image-1285\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-980x550.jpg 980w, https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-480x270.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1024px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>We all like to think we trust our children, but even the most innocent children can be duped into sharing more information online than they should. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As this report points out, the &#8220;snatch and grab&#8221; method of child trafficking is not what usually happens.&nbsp; Instead, traffickers are most often connecting with children online, even through some children&#8217;s apps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"color:#32373c;background-color:#ffdd57\" class=\"wp-block-genesis-blocks-gb-notice gb-font-size-18 gb-block-notice\" data-id=\"f5535b\"><div class=\"gb-notice-title\" style=\"color:#fff\"><p><a href=\"https:\/\/fox2now.com\/news\/sex-traffickers-using-social-media-to-target-children\/\">As this article from Fox2News points out<\/a>.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"gb-notice-text\" style=\"border-color:#ffdd57\"><p>Messages often involve flattery and attempt to make the child feel understood, important and popular. Over time, the messages may become more graphic or the trafficker may ask for nude photos.<\/p><p>\u201cIt\u2019s not going to appear to that child that this is a stranger,\u201d said Cindy Malott, Director of Advocacy Services for Crisis Aid International. \u00a0\u201cThey\u2019re going to think it\u2019s someone they know.\u201d<\/p><p>Anderson said age is the common denominator among victims. Traffickers feed on insecurities many young people face.<\/p><p>\u201cAll adolescents are going to encounter periods of insecurity, periods of feeling isolated, or feeling depressed,\u201d said Anderson. \u201cThose are the types of vulnerabilities, particularly those we are seeing who are looking for children online are preying on.\u201d<\/p><p>From &lt;<a href=\"https:\/\/fox2now.com\/news\/sex-traffickers-using-social-media-to-target-children\/\">https:\/\/fox2now.com\/news\/sex-traffickers-using-social-media-to-target-children\/<\/a>><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/fox2now.com\/2019\/11\/11\/sex-traffickers-using-social-media-to-target-children\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"871\" height=\"487\" src=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Fox2Now-news-feature.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1284\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Fox2Now-news-feature.jpg 871w, https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Fox2Now-news-feature-480x268.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) 871px, 100vw\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All it takes is one rendevous with a predator for things to go terribly wrong, and unfortunately, things get even worse from there on out.  Most predators are sly enough to mentally manipulate their young victims into keeping all these terrible experiences to themselves, preventing them from asking for help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only way to prevent it is to never let it happen in the first place. That requires maybe taking a tougher-than-you-want approach to your child&#8217;s unrestricted use of their phone or social media. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Get involved &#8211; if you love your child &#8211; you owe it to them to protect them from these slimy predators.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-ugb-divider ugb-divider ugb-f2fe6bf ugb-divider--v2 ugb-divider--design-basic ugb-main-block\"><style>.ugb-f2fe6bf hr.ugb-divider__hr{margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important}<\/style><div class=\"ugb-inner-block\"><div class=\"ugb-block-content\"><hr class=\"ugb-divider__hr\"\/><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"516\" src=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Dougs-Title-Block-for-SHT-1-1024x516.png\" alt=\"Doug Bardwell's bio\" class=\"wp-image-1047\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Dougs-Title-Block-for-SHT-1-1024x516.png 1024w, https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Dougs-Title-Block-for-SHT-1-980x494.png 980w, https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Dougs-Title-Block-for-SHT-1-480x242.png 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) 1024px, 100vw\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-ugb-divider ugb-divider ugb-c0fe5a0 ugb-divider--v2 ugb-divider--design-basic ugb-main-block\"><style>.ugb-c0fe5a0 hr.ugb-divider__hr{margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important}<\/style><div class=\"ugb-inner-block\"><div class=\"ugb-block-content\"><hr class=\"ugb-divider__hr\"\/><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Nine more articles you might find enlightening<\/strong>:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/06\/07\/the-worst-thing-your-child-wont-tell-you\/\">The worst thing your child won\u2019t tell you<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/08\/29\/what-to-tell-your-child-before-its-too-late\/\">What to tell your child before it\u2019s too late<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/04\/24\/can-you-believe-human-zoos-existed-in-this-country\/\">Can you believe human zoos existed in this country<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2019\/02\/19\/learn-the-dangerous-language-of-human-traffickers-before-your-child-does\/\">Learn the dangerous language of human traffickers before your child does<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/05\/24\/learning-the-facts-about-sexual-violence-these-stats-are-incredible\/\">Learning the facts about sexual violence \u2013 these stats are incredible<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/05\/02\/want-to-get-involved-with-ending-human-trafficking\/\">Want to get involved with ending human trafficking?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2019\/02\/07\/st-josephine-bakhita-patron-saint-of-trafficking-victims\/\">Saint Bakhita \u2013 patron saint of trafficking victims<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/04\/05\/look-beneath-the-surface-would-you-recognized-someone-being-trafficked\/\">Look beneath the surface \u2013 would you recognize someone being trafficked?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/index.php\/2018\/05\/12\/make-a-friend-save-a-trafficking-victim\/\">Make a friend \u2013 save someone from becoming a trafficking victim<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Think that keeping your child is home is keeping them safe? Think again. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1285,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[229],"tags":[23,180,93],"class_list":["post-1283","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-things-to-do","tag-human-trafficking","tag-parenting-advice","tag-social-media"],"featured_image_urls_v2":{"full":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash.jpg",1920,1078,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-150x84.jpg",150,84,true],"medium":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-300x168.jpg",300,168,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-768x431.jpg",768,431,true],"large":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-1024x575.jpg",1024,575,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-1536x862.jpg",1536,862,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash.jpg",1920,1078,false],"et-pb-post-main-image":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-400x250.jpg",400,250,true],"et-pb-post-main-image-fullwidth":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-1080x675.jpg",1080,675,true],"et-pb-portfolio-image":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-400x284.jpg",400,284,true],"et-pb-portfolio-module-image":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-510x382.jpg",510,382,true],"et-pb-portfolio-image-single":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-1080x606.jpg",1080,606,true],"et-pb-gallery-module-image-portrait":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-400x516.jpg",400,516,true],"et-pb-post-main-image-fullwidth-large":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash.jpg",1920,1078,false],"et-pb-image--responsive--desktop":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-1280x719.jpg",1280,719,true],"et-pb-image--responsive--tablet":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-980x550.jpg",980,550,true],"et-pb-image--responsive--phone":["https:\/\/dougbardwell.com\/sht\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/dole777-EQSPI11rf68-unsplash-480x270.jpg",480,270,true]},"post_excerpt_stackable_v2":"<p>Think that keeping your child is home is keeping them safe? 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